Well, H agrees with the submissive theory

[fearless]

He knows on an intellectual level that it wouldn't be a good idea to encourage it, but he's unbelievably turned on at the thought of it. He didn't react as angrily at your past indiscretions as you thought he should. And he *&$#ed you silly after you told him you wanted to jump the fence again.

CE, You definitely might be right that Mr LFL is somewhat turned on by the idea of LFL with someone else.

However I wonder if it is just as likely that the thought of LFL being with someone else triggers more of a feeling of "I will be the man my wife needs and wants. I'll show her how I really feel about her."

There is something about the way LFL writes about her H which makes him seem more Alpha and stronger to me than she seems to see him.

I wonder if LFL has taken the time to sidle up to him today and let him know exactly how great yesterday was for her. As in whispering in his ear "I couldn't stop thinking about x, y and z all day today." or whatever...