Jen, I don't understand what your H is thinking either. Maybe its revenge or maybe he's just confused himself. Maybe he's got some kind of big stress, like work, in his life right now that is stealing his focus. Maybe he's so used to being mad at you he's still holding on to the anger when he doesn't need to. I take it he won't open up and talk about it.
Don't give up!
FredD
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.