Jen, I have recently realized something which I wanted to share with you to see if it might fit for you. Now that my h and I are really back in sync, I've been reminded how much I like playing the seducer every now and then (or more often). In fact there are times when I wish he weren't so easy .
Do you remember if you ever enjoyed playing that part? When you lose your drive and an imbalance then develops in terms of who is doing most of the pursuing, it's easy to forget. And if your "HD" spouse is currently not as interested as you expected, have some fun with it! Remember to keep the idea of seduction fun for yourself. Even if your h doesn't respond, just enjoy doing it anyway just for yourself. Who knows, your enjoyment may be infectious!
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