I think your insight are amazing! You really take an honest look at yourself, your motives, your H, his feelings, etc. And it's so cool that you are here and willing to share your experiences with all of us.
I still find it hard to believe that there are others out there in the same situation. The whole "sex" issue has been the unspooken secret in our relationship. On the outside people think H and I are the perfect couple. And between us this problem has been the elephant in the room niether one of us is talking about.
It is such a relief to know that it can get better! And there are answers. You and your H are living proof. I can relate to almost all of your posts and they help me so much to do better and give more.
