Thanks, HB and Lin.
Great for you to get ILY. I have not said that for a while and H has stopped saying it, probably because I don't say it. I hate to hear it from him anyway because there is the other half unsaid, "IL her also".

OTOH, H has really been on the ball with the kids and family in general. No signs of phone call/text from OW. Which is a surprise fro me. I would think OW would be calling at all odd hours. H even have the phone off the whole New Year Eve so I know there is no "Happy New Year from OW" type call. His email was down so he could not check email and that bothered him. That may be because of OW or just his general semi-addiction to checking email a few times a day. I actually hoped OW will go crazy but unfortunately she is not that type who pushes. I so want her to push and go crazy so H can see what kind of woman she is. But she is not, so she will always be the perfect women in H's eyes. But then if she does not push, I think H will just let her go, eventually. H always go to her when she has "crisis".

We had a good New Year Eve. Went out to town with the kids to walk around. But then it got too cold and we were too tired so we went home before midnight and watched fireworks on TV!!!