Sorry if I offended. I've been married twice and both became a SSM with me the high desire and them the low desire. That has made me assume women were all low desire, at least after the wedding day. I know now that is not the case from here and also my W's friend's M. W's friend is high desire and her H is low. They are getting divorced. Makes me wonder if we should just swap spouses. Only kidding! (My W may read this.)

Am I crazy to think daily sexual activity should be ok? W and I have tried 8 years of once or twice a month. What's wrong with trying the opposite? Am I delusional? I think it would make me the happiest man in the world. It seems like such an easy way for my W to make me happy. I wish there was something that easy for me to do every day to make her that happy.


The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.