Another question-my husband has a weird thing he does. Every time we have a good day, he likes to ruin it at the end. For example, today we had a good time bowling and running at the track with the kids, and at the end he said something like Our life has changed, for me I don't love you anymore, (something like that.) Usually before this, when we had a good time, he would email his girlfriend in front of me. He said he did this so I wouldn't have any hope (I guess that our relationship has a chance or something). It's very hard for me to keep being happy and not lose it, when he does this kind of thing. I did lose my temper today, too when he said that, which I have to wonder is his goal or something. I wonder what his real purpose is behind trying to ruin our good times together, you know. Any ideas behind why he does this and what I should do when he does this??? Thanks!!! Karen