I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[sandi2]

What year's taxes are you talking about? The 2006 extension was due Oct 15 2007

Dear Lou,

You were right about that date. We just found out yesterday, so my DIL said there was no point in trying to get it in the mail by midnight. So, do you know if the IRS penalties are so much per day or how that works? I'm afraid to ask anyone.

As far as the back yard is concerned, he got a 7 day extension, which gave us this week. Not one thing has been done as of today!

I didn't get much sleep last night. Woke up before 3:00 a.m. and finished one of the books I've been inching through. I had made up my mind that when he got up that I was going to walk up to him and tell him for us to start the New Year out with a great big kiss. But, I finally went back to bed, probably right before he woke up and by the time I got up, he had left to go out of town. I feel so down today and have no energy. I don't know if the Zoloft is going to do anything for me except put weight on me. Anyway, I hope and pray that we all have a better year. It is really hard for me to have a PMA right now b/c I know that what Lilliperl said is true.....this man is not going to change and I can either accept it or let it drive me crazy. But, this "crap" around here is what I can't accept and is very difficult to put forth much effort toward the R when I feel angry and humiliated.

I don't think the GS is going to be willing to give the dog away and we had found a good home out in the country where he could run free and be so much more happier than in that small cage. He is growing so fast and is not getting exercise like he needs. I have to watch this every day and it breaks my heart. He is so bored in that cage and so lonely. I guess I sound silly, but I just can't stand to see dogs in a cage or tied up. The GS doesn't take up any time with him b/c he is rarely here,nor does he take care of the dog......so that doesn't set well with me, either. We don't have the money to fence in the back yard, or I guess we would probably do it. My H has gotten so attached to the dog (of course I haven't...lol).

Sorry that I keep harping on the same tune, it's just what it is right now. That's one reason I haven't added anything to my thread in the last few days b/c nothing has changed and I just don't want any advice on what action I need to be doing at this moment to meet my H's needs, etc. I can't handle it right now.
I don't know what to expect from the IRS and I don't know what to expect from the city. I don't know how many $$$$ this is going to put us into debt, so I am just trying to get through this particular stress with my sanity in tact. Then, maybe I can muster up the energy to tackle the MR.

Anyway, I always appreciate your help, Lou, and everyone that has shown concern. I really want to feel positive about a new year. I always like to start out like a fresh new slate, but it is feeling very hard to do today.