MPT - just wanted to say that I wish my wife would put the kind of thought into improving our relationship that you have into yours. Your husband is very lucky. Just a quick update for you concerning my situation - since last weekend I've noticed my wife making some efforts to at least touch me in bed. Nothing overly sexy - just touching feet, etc. but it's enough of a change that I can tell she's making an effort. Now if I could just get you to call her and counsel her, maybe things would start heating up. I'm kidding of course, although I think it would be helpful if she could read some of the posts on here - especially the ones from women who either are or have been in her position. But my better judgement tells me to not even think about asking her to read posts on a messageboard - especially one where I've been posting. Oh well, at the moment I'm just trying to be happy with the slight improvement. I'm glad to see that things are going well for you.

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