Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Hope your healing is quick so you can get away from the tv a bit. As for the house, I think you would totally enjoy hanging around the apartment pool with friends more than mowing.
Funny how mowing doesn't attract freinds!
Good luck with your new list of goals. I hope we all become so inspired, and wouldn't it be even better if we accomplished most of our list? I do think we will all look at our list with different eyes after the changes we have been forced to make. I know I am looking forward to starting on mine.
Hope your healing is quick so you can get away from the tv a bit. As for the house, I think you would totally enjoy hanging around the apartment pool with friends more than mowing.
Funny how mowing doesn't attract freinds!
Good luck with your new list of goals. I hope we all become so inspired, and wouldn't it be even better if we accomplished most of our list? I do think we will all look at our list with different eyes after the changes we have been forced to make. I know I am looking forward to starting on mine.
You know what W2S?
You are always "spot on" in your replies. It amazes me!!
I would ENJOY hanging around the complex pool instead of mowing. I would enjoy quiet weekends reading or whatever instead of trying to keep this house up. It wasn't so bad a few years ago when we would do it together but that was then/this is now.
Yes, the list of goals are seen through different eyes now. Whether it was forced upon us or not, they are things that need to be done in order to even attempt at finding that peace and happiness again. As far as I see it, the list goes in steps, follow along down the line then your FINALLY DONE! I should be able to achieve it all.
Sooooooooo, now this brings me to ask.....what are your goals that your looking forward to starting??
I'm telling you.....this year is going to be "The Year"! I have no doubts in my mind.
Thaks for stopping by W2S, you don't visit me often, but when you do, it's always fabulous!
Happy New Year Dude!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Well I got a call from the MIA XH today. Again, life is "Woe is me" and the trip was so sad. Yeah dude! When someone dies it is sad. I got it. Had to hear the whole story about how people crawl out of the woodworks to get the shingles of his shack.
OK....so again, here we go. Tomorrow he is AGAIN supposed to come by and fix broken sprinkler motor. Won't he be surprised to see brown grass.
I am so tired of this. I may just have to let it all out tomorrow. After the sprinkler is fixed. I hate living like this.
We'll see......a distance cousin in timbuktoo may bite the big one and he has to fly away again so no betting on this one.
Hugs
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
Don't just let it rip, Jeanette. If you can't speak to him in truth AND love, just shut it because it's not going to do either of you any good when you speak from that spirit of offense that's attached itself to you.
