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I also feel like he has just given up. And I don't blame him at all. But I am not even sure if he wants it anymore. I think he has become accustomed to being mad about it.


I'm not a man so I can't speak from a mans perspective but I will tell you...at times yes I have given up...and used to being mad about it...saying nothing....I start to not want it anymore because it is not the sex I am truly after it is the closeness...the hugging kissing...and ok sometimes the sex too...but when it doesn't come and I wait night after night after night after night not initiating because I don't want to be rejected to then have that add to my frustrations..I start to not even want it...hoping that he doesn't initiate because by then it will be just because he suddenly wanted it and oh why now!! then I don't enjoy it as much.

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