It seems to me MJ that you may feel unworthy of dating these men with some money. Or it just makes you feel worse about yourself because you are broke. I get that. Probably same reason I really wouldn't want to be in a relationship with anyone prettier than me. It would be hard not to compare. Wondering if they think I am worthy of them or something. Maybe that is just poor self-esteem on our parts..maybe. Anyways, if you like these guys and they have nice biceps, lol, then just go for it. The money situation may not be a big issue in the end. And who says you have to share with them your money situation? If they share, that's their business. I doubt they are going to judge you for it. Maybe some would, but not most men. In fact, I think most men like the fact that they make more money than the person they are dating. Less intimidating or something.
Ok, I've got about 50 papers to grade by tomorrow so I need to get my azz in gear and stop chatting. Happy new year.