Felt like someone just flipped the switch off, didn't it? And they didn't bother to ask you either! I know, been there. The good news is, it's back on for me. I hope you can take comfort from that. I was sure it was off for good and couldn't imagine my desire coming back. I think there were several reasons for how it got switched back on. One of which is just doing it regularly for several months. Any hormonal benefit that comes from just doing it may have started operating. It did take a lot of effort and using a variety of strategies to be able to just do it. Then there were some other problems that needed to be worked out with my husband to re-enliven the closeness and love between us that is my pilot light (not to overwork the analogy, but hey it works here! ) Right now, the switch is definitely back on and we've come up with some strategies to deal quickly with any dimming that may occur. There is hope.