Quote: It's one thing to know and learn new ideas. It is quite another to apply them. I guess I am looking for words of wisdom, support and/or encouragement to really apply the principles in the book and to do whatever I can to make a real change here.
applying the principals in the book can help you to be done with feelings like theese
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I am so tired of the constant worry, anger, resentement and fear surround our sex life.
every time you are reluctant to apply the principals or try something new keep this statement in mind..
Quote: I want my husband back and I want to be able to give him and myself this very important aspect of our sex life.
keep in mind too that though it may seem that all we are looking for is "sex" that isn't the case...
I have been the woman in a ssm for a long time...it is not just the sex that I want it is the physical closeness....the touching and feelings that you don't share with others...a subtle hug...a kiss...a hand on the shoulder..the touching that doesn't always lead to "sex"
I'm happy to hear you are willing to make the effort...I wish my h would try to understand my feelings instead of just letting it go on as my problem.
