Moving from house to house, slowly but surely. My girlfriend dropped off her horse trailer on Sunday, my parents totally saved my bacon by coming and helping me load big stuff and packing. (It was 15 man hours of work between the 3 of us.) If they hadn't come, I wouldn't have gotten hardly anything in the trailer.
Anyhoo-girlfriend moved the trailer from this house to the other yesterday noon time. She, a guy friend of mine and my daughter helped unload. Then DD and I unpacked the pantry stuff together. And then I put away all the dishes. Oh, and my friend also helped me move my prairie dogs, so they are now at the other house. (I thought I would have to wait for H to help, but now it's done-yay!)
If I keep going at this rate- I will be completely moved out before Saturday and won't have to be here for any drama/tears when H comes to drop off his stuff before coming to my house. I am still VERY sad (incredibly sad) that we ended up at this place, but there's nothing I can do about it.
My new house is VERY homey. I am excited to get in there and finish "nesting". The containers with the bulk of my stuff will be delivered Thurs morning.
Surprisingly, I was not that emotional last night. In fact, not at all. Probably because the move is so distracting. yup- must be that because right now I am crying pretty good.
Last night at 9pm (midnight NYC time) H sent me a TM saying "happy new year from ts in nyc" I wrote back "Happy New Year! That's cool that you get to be in Times Square" and he said "Yeah we got to be right under the ball" (The "we" is (I assume) his sibs.)
What kind of a weird WAS TMs the LBS on the holidays?? I suppose it's a no win for him. If he didn't text, I'd be hurt/mad and when he does I'm confused as to WHY won't he just go to retrovaille with me so we can fix this??
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
