HELP!! my 25 y/o H walked out... maybe mlc? HELP!!

[kaycie]

I understand how you feel... as far as comming home to find that your H packed up and left... what a hard low blow and a shocker.

I am sorry that your H is being so determined to D, My H the day after his move out said he wanted to work on us and he would come home when he felt better. well that was a year ago and he says that he is not comfortable because of the conflicts we still have which are basically me trying to plead with him to come home. I got the DB book last weekend and I have trying to go with that I have been through so many tough tough test over the past few months especially but I still want to save my marriage. I feel like I owe it to my family to be here while my H is "sick" and as I say under the influence of satan. The old him would never do what he is doing now.

anyways I don't know what to say in the advice area except trying the backing off from pressuring him, I say that because I feel like the has been my biggest mistake in causing my H to still be away from home. maybe if you can give him his space to go through this early on you will be able to get things right sooner rather then later...