Hi Sleeper,

I think your W and my H are the same person. H also says that if handled properly the kids will have no problem, and that our parenting shouldn't change at all- he's out of his mind. I have also accused him of cherry-picking the parts of our marriage he wants- keeping the family part, my friendship, and ditching the parts he doesn't like so he can "have more passion in his life." He denies that's what he's doing. Amazing how these people think. D6 has been extra sensitive lately, (I think she's picked up on things around here, which H disagrees with of course), and H actually accused me of saying something to her about the situation that made her upset. As$. I said, sarcastically, "yeah, I told her that daddy doesn't love mommy anymore and he's leaving us." (which I didn't). My god- he's known me for 13 years- what kind of a mother does he think I am!!!

Thanks for all the details- it all helps and I'm filing it away. Will just have to play it as it comes.
Kelly


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08