Yeah read DR and DB, probably a bit too late, wife already left and has been gone for 7 months. While we were getting together for the first 3-4 months, the last few have basically been no contact and there is now another guy in the picture. I have already been down this road with her before and the last time we seperated for 1 yr so its somewhat familiar terrain. This time it does feel more hopeless though and an actual divorce has been filed (by me), I have considered dropping the case altogether but I do fear for the safety of my girls and on top of that I have trouble backing out of this decision, the most important one I have ever made in my life. Not even sure if I want this woman back, certainly not in her present state, just confused.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
