Discipline is not something I am short on, especially through all of this I have let a lot roll off my back. Problem is I get viewed by my stbx as weak and not standing up for myself, then when I do lose it for reasons like finding out about new affair, etc I am told I am verbally abusive. Always felt I have been in a no win situation but I keep plugging away hoping for a miracle I guess. Damned if you do, damned if you dont.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3 2 Dogs Seperated since Jun07
