Happy New Year to All I has been a long time since I posted on this board. I was on this board for many years and then on to surviving the divorce. Yes I did divorce. Will be 4 years on the 8th of Jan. I just want you all to know there is happiness on the other side. I know the pain,anger, betrayal, and broken hearts that you are feeling. It will be better. Everyone heals in a different way and on a different time scale. I guess because my X-H cheated on me, I healed at a faster pace. He would not give her up and was not about to share. I have to say though at the time I thought that my life was over without him. What did I know. I am enjoying my life like I never have before. Just remember you deserve the best. You all are special people. God Bless Happy New Year