\:D HAPPY NEW YEAR everyone. I hope the year is starting off great for you.

Not to dwell on the past, but I do like to journal here. Yesterday was another day w/ miscommunication. I had told H the night before that I needed to take D15 to get a dress for an upcoming dance. H told me he was working in the morning but would be over after lunch. I was planning to wait until he got there as D 10 didn't want to go. Not sure that I even discussed that w/ H. H calls around 1:00 and asked how shopping was going. Told him we didn't go and that I was waiting for him since D10 didn't want to go. H seems upset and says that I said I was taking the girls shopping. I said no I was only planning to go to one store, we went shopping the other day. H kept insisting I said we were going shopping. H said he would be at the house around 3. I enden up taking both Ds and we found the perfect dress. Of course I was very upset when I got off the phone and the Ds had to suffer my mood.

It kills me when H insists I told him something that I didn't. H can't remember so many things I tell him, yet he is so sure that I said certain things that I didn't. I am starting to think I should transcribe our conversations. That reminds me, I need to make a calendar of Jan. events so he has advance warning of everything.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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