There is definate reason to have caution here. Like I said earlier, just cuz he feels this way today it doesn't mean he will feel that way tomorrow. I figure if he was serious about moving back he would be with me tonight. We had a short convo texting earlier. He said he didn't know what he was doing tonight and was in a weird/down mood. So I told him I had a bottle of champange if he was interested. I got a "I don't know" from him. He told me tonight he doesn't know if he will ever be happy. I told him that he can and has been happy and that it was going to take baby steps for him to get there again. He asked me when I ever thought he was happy. I told him a few things and he sent me a "sincere thanks". That's the last I heard from him.
I am really sad tonight without him. I did not let him know that or let him know if I was doing anything at all tonight. I wanted him to be here because he wanted to. Not out of guilt.
And Dom, of course I need advise from this forum or I wouldn't be here. He hasn't moved home and even when or if he does it's going to be a long road. Aren't we here so we ccan help others stay on the right track?
Me:32 H: 34 T: 12 YEARS M: ALMOST 5 S: 8 D: 4 S: 14 (OTHER R) SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it) NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants) MOVED HOME 12/01/08 I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans