I'm a newbie-H is MLC-Lovely!!!

[MrsLBW]

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Isn't that why we are all here-for feedback?



[quote]Rebuilding that trust is hard. [quote]

He isn't even asking me to trust him...you're right that he isn't even close to being trustworthy. But he said to me "I can just see you throwing this back in my face during every argument for the rest of our lives"....So, it gets put back on me again. does anyone else see that? It's not "I will work on you being secure enough that you can trust me again". Instead it's as if he is saying "You're going to do THIS to ME again". He can only see how it will effect HIM.

Having him in this house today just made my stomach twisted. I couldn't wait for him to leave. Even though I knew he was meeting her.