Oh I have done a ton GAL for myself...I have been hanging out with friends a lot more, working out, doing things by myself...I have also done stuff that I should have been doing all along, such as helping more around the house and appreciating W...
I really do have a ton of passion for her. It hurts incredibly to hear what she's saying.
Telling her she's wrong has not been working at all, of course..I have tried immensly lately to just listen, nod my head and say I understand what you are saying. I cant say I understand what you are feeling.
OM is a symptom of what we were lacking, communication and effort between us.
When I look back at the past couple months, every activity, everything she has been doing, I have been doing on the other side. We have been doing the same things, just with different people. In that aspect, I dont think we are that different. I wish she could see this.
