Hi LT [preaching follows] What I believe is Forgive is automatic but that is a tough act to follow however Trust is earned and that is something you are at liberty to give or not.
I believe all of us deep down inside have the 'Whats in it for me' angle and what sets people apart is how they counteract that angle so the learned behavior is doing good and if not counteract the basic angle then the learned and easier behavior is to do what is in it for myself. [preaching ends]
Venting here is good. Hot Aussies Flirting with older Yanks is very good. However I'm coming from the 'Whats in it for me angle'.
Hey we are just havin fun. Kinda like when I ask all the folks from the commonwealth 'Who speaks the proper Queen's English?'.
Happy New Year.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin