I wouldnt accept her doing it in front of me(talking to om). She knows where i stand in our r. I really want her to make a choice if she is willing to commit(whole heartedly) to our m. I want her to try, at least for the kids. Not stay unhappy for them. I have considdered disconnecting the phone when she has gone over minuites.
do you have a particular thread from chocolateeyes i could read?
Sara,
no cheese tonight, at least not yet. She came home from store and her gf had called to ask her over to talk (they are having r problems also). She went to her house and to bar said she prob wouldnt be there till midnight. She did ask if she could call for a ride if she needed one, i said yes. I went to McDonalds drive through. She said we could do eggrolls tomarrow. We are going to Fargo tomarrow to spend gift cards from Christmas. Her and d12 are from mall and mine is sporting goods store. I wanted alone time, i guess this will have to do. It does seem like every time i get close someone not involved with this gets between us.
light switch
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
