man they are all alike in many ways.....text book stuff....you are very patient...I can see the SLOW progress in your sitch...wishing you all the best
Patience is pretty easy - I'm just giving her time and space to do her thing, taking care of D and knowing that I'll be okay and that W would be a million times better off with me rather than on her own. W hasn't made any effort to file or even set up a legal separation, so I don't think she's in any hurry to bail out.
