I disagree with staying together for the kids. I agree with trying for the kids. (really whole heartedly trying) I disagree with trying the same things over and over. (cheeseless tunnels) I agree with trying new things.
I would love my w to have some consequences(eye openers), and i think she will someday. I wont be a tirant(sp) making rules for her to obey. I want my w to want me, love me.
I do believe there will be a time for me to give the ultimatum and follow through.
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Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt