I disagree with staying together for the kids.
I agree with trying for the kids. (really whole heartedly trying)
I disagree with trying the same things over and over. (cheeseless tunnels)
I agree with trying new things.

I would love my w to have some consequences(eye openers), and i think she will someday. I wont be a tirant(sp) making rules for her to obey. I want my w to want me, love me.

I do believe there will be a time for me to give the ultimatum and follow through.

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just trying to help

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Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt