I think there is probably a lot of truth in what you are saying.
however...I have told her many times that I understand how she feels now, and I am not discounting that she is not happy. I guess my disagreement with her is how long she has felt this way. I have disagreed with her when she has rewritten our past, and she has admitted in doing so.
I really believe we had some moments this spring that proove she was in love with me then. thus..if we had some minor issues before, then some times this summer when we weren't together, to me...being together more and me showing appreciation to and for her are my answers. but she won't allow it now.
I learned very early to not tell her how she feels for me or that I can still sense it. I can, but I'm not mentioning it.
on this last cuddle episode, we didn't talk about it, nor did I mention anything about it to her.
it seems shes made up her mind to me. she has said it over and over and doesn't want to put any effort into it. it hurts her that its hurting me so much, but she feels this is best. she knows how I feel and that I want to try. I guess that's what hurts so badly is she has given up on me.
