ROOT, Always great to hear from you and get your perspective. I told H today that I'm certainly not in denial but I also don't need to talk about the D details every day. He really starts all of the D and R talks and I just participate. How do I put an end to it gracefully?
I guess H's conversations w/ow have included him telling her that he would always be a part of my life and that he is here to help me around the house, etc... H said ow is ok with that. As a woman, I might SAY that I'm ok with that in order to help seal the deal w/the man I want to be with but, PLEASE... If I start to ask H for help after he is living with her, it is NOT going to be ok. Do you ladies agree???
H just left to spend NYE w/ow. I am going to throw up as this is the first time that I've "known" about it. I just told him goodbye when he left... He sucks...
