My D3 named her Webkinz OW's D's name. I hear ya, mister. I feel ya.

Like Sara, I was all pumped up about the good exchange too. But...the good exchange still happened, so that is a good thing. I think that you put the message to your W about your sons and her being a mother was great. That made you out (as it should because you are!) as very thoughtful and considerate. Not someone that should make your wife nervous and anxious...

Happy New Year!