Yup, good advice. DO NOT CONTACT YOUR SPOUSE!!! If I could, I'd come over there and sit on you myself.
H and I separated two months ago, and the holidays are hell. But please, do not contact your spouse, just do what you can to get through this evening.
That's what I have been doing. I let Christmas pass without a peep, and I am doing the same tonight. I fact, H probably believes I have plans of my own, but I am going to pour a glass of Asti, watch some DVD's that don't remind me of H, and I will be OK.
So will you. Please hang in there and know that there are real peeps on this site who care and can help. I know it's hell, but you will come out the other side.
Wow, listen to me after just two months!! LOL!!
Happy New Year, and thanks to all of you here for the support. I t helps so much to know that we are not alone.
