Another thing the book said was that the cheating spouse needs to see that you are angry, in a controlled way, to know you care. I know, it's not DB. But it says at some point they will hint to you they want to see you care.
Me 41 H 47 D9 S3 M 16 yrs WAH Sep 07 PA Aug 07 12/07 Admitted A 1/08 C 1/15 H needs me 5/7/08 came home 7/08 We moved to MD 10/08 M bad again 11/24/08 fled to GA(OW),filed D 12/8/08 Back in MD 12/23/08 I countered 12/29/08 path back?