Ann,

I can't recall, but how much have you discussed the EA with him? It's not your place to bring it up, it is his. But maybe if you as a gift to him, don't bring it up tonight, just enjoy that time, but maybe in the next few days let him know you would never leave him, you made a mistake and if he has any questions you are willing to answer and discuss.

I don't know if this is the best advice, but if he knows that your an open book and he can look anytime, then maybe that will help. I have a million questions to ask W, and when I have she has answered, but usually one or two and I can't take much more and have to walk away. Trust me it is really reassuring to get an answer even though it hurts. Just keep trying to lift him up. He is in a real funk, sucks that you have to be the strong one, pregnant and hurting. But we are all in the same sitch of trying to be strong while so wounded.

Although, I have to admit I'm not pregnant, I hope. Although I look it and feel it. Lol! Better get exercising or I'm going to follow in Arnold's foot steps. I've already passed one kidney stone in my life, and I don't want do that again at all costs. Haha!


Me: 31
W: 31
S: 2
Bomb 6-24-07
Seperated 6-24-07
W Filed October
Temp. Hearing 11-26-07
Completely Sober Jan. 2, 08.