It sucks. I know. I just finished one DVD and I am on to the next. I was invited out, but I am not sure if I am up to going. Take the above advice. It is hard as hell. If it helps, I went through this same BS when I was dating my husband. He pulled this leaving crap after we were many years into dating. Long story short I remember I spent New Years eve alone. I did not call him and I vowed that the start of the next year would be better and I would not chase after him. I would allow myself time to heal and be alone and embrace the pain because as we all know the pain eventually lessens although it does not feel that way now. Anyway, this plan worked. I gave him about a year of space though he was ready to come back after about 6 months. Now if I had known it was going to be a pattern and I was going to have to face this crap 8 years later in marriage I would have told him to stay gone. My point is that time really is the best thing. One of two things will happen- the more time you give them (without any r talk or pressure) the more likely they to miss you and want to come back the other thing that could happen is that enough time will go by and you may decide that you don't want them back. Either way, it seems like it will work out in your favor. Trust me on this because I know. So for now, hunker down, catch up on some alone time, do stuff that you may have been putting off and back off. Make 2008 the year for you. Hopefully, I can take my own advice.
