I'm so sorry about the comment. (((Ann))). Don't let it get to you, like I said before, your husband is young and inmature for a man. Doesn't mean he isn't one, but he wears his heart on his sleeve, and he still hasn't figured out the EA was you not him. So his ego is smashed and he is hurt. Try and lift him up, I know that is tough when he acts like such a child. A man ties so much of his emotional connection to his S with sex, that anything you did in the past he is connecting that to the A. I know I do that. About 6 months prior to W leaving, we were having what only I can describe as everything I ever wanted sexually. So now of course I think the new things she was going she doing somewhere else as well. It is sad, but we are really pretty simple. But don't let his downer get you down.
As for the PMA, he is going to react to your attitude and you to his. So if you can already plan that he is going to be grumpy today, and your not going to let it effect you, but rather your going to act "as if," be happy and toast the new year. Eventually, he has to smile and have fun with it. No one likes to sit in their pity party alone. So don't join his pity party, have your own fun, and eventually he will have to shed the boo hoo for me attitude.
