Aud, Your emotional bank account is overdrawn? You mean that you're working harder at the R than he is? You mean that you're putting in effort and seeing not much reward?
His skills at self-expression and communication seem limited. This must be frustrating for someone like you who seems so articulate and expressive.
It seems like we Piecers have to evaluate periodically our allocation of energy put into self-care versus influencing the R. Where have you been putting your energy--more self-care, more building connection in the R, or a balance of both?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."