In The Passion Trap, what you are experiencing is called the 'short honeymoon phase,' aka - 'holy smokes, she's actually going to dump my azz.' It comes on the tail end of a One Down reclaiming part of their power, and the One Up feels it.
Power, as I have said before, is an incredible aphrodisiac (combined with the last ditch 'honesty' talk). Fran is experiencing the exact same thing with her H right now, if you read how he's been acting toward her on her thread.
LFL, I really suggest you read that book, to make sure you KEEP the power you have so recently reclaimed, or it's going to sputter and go right back to what it was.
Hate to be such a stick in the mud about it all, because I AM glad you got some good nookie.
