In The Passion Trap, what you are experiencing is called the 'short honeymoon phase,' aka - 'holy smokes, she's actually going to dump my azz.' It comes on the tail end of a One Down reclaiming part of their power, and the One Up feels it.
Power, as I have said before, is an incredible aphrodisiac (combined with the last ditch 'honesty' talk). Fran is experiencing the exact same thing with her H right now, if you read how he's been acting toward her on her thread.
LFL, I really suggest you read that book, to make sure you KEEP the power you have so recently reclaimed, or it's going to sputter and go right back to what it was.
Hate to be such a stick in the mud about it all, because I AM glad you got some good nookie.
And I can't believe this...but he just gave me another quickie. That's twice in one day. Double wtf. Maybe he gets off on thinking about me with other men and doesn't want to admit it. Nah. He just loves me and thinks I'm hot.
Why can't both be true? Seriously?
He's been pretty closed-mouthed about his fantasies, right? I think you just found one.
(Or maybe I'm talking about myself again...)
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
LFL And I can't believe this...but he just gave me another quickie. That's twice in one day. Double wtf.
I am happy for you LFL. Go for the third quickie.
Maybe he gets off on thinking about me with other men and doesn't want to admit it. I doubt that. I say he wants to make you happy but has trouble getting past his own hang-ups.
Nah. He just loves me and thinks I'm hot. You are hot. What is to think about?
Happy new Year and go get wet again. Make your H do you till he walks funny.
Don't fool yourself, Lou. There are all kinds of things to think about, that can stifle, or inspire.
Have you ever thought about talking while fcking? To inspire with words? To lure, with hot breath in the ear? In a seductive manner, one word at a time?
Have you ever thought about talking while fcking? To inspire with words? To lure, with hot breath in the ear? In a seductive manner, one word at a time? ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? I don’t know what to make of that reply so here goes.
Have you ever thought about talking while fcking? I don’t talk much when f’ing. My hands are busy. I make sounds of pleasure. I breathe heavy when I like something.
To inspire with words? I do say what I think will be taken as a compliment. BB dumps a lot of things she dislikes about people or things while we F. Talking can take a wrong turn real fast. I avoid some type of talks. Knowing when to keep quiet is also a skill or sometimes a self preservation move.
To lure, with hot breath in the ear? In a seductive manner, one word at a time? Sorry, not one of my skills. True compliments or things I like, yes.
Maybe I could say 401K real slow. No, sorry bad joke.
Well... xBF used to really run hot when I talked to him during sex. Told stories. I'm good at stories. Sounds real nice. I know I would like something like that. Some good story or something up-beat. Yes, that would really be nice. I might even do a tripple long back rub.
Back to LFL Don't fool yourself, Lou. There are all kinds of things to think about, that can stifle, or inspire. So Corri, you saying don't be too optimistic at this early change?
LFL said she felt un-loveable, un-desirable by her H, or something like that not too long ago.
From what she has written, I don't see a prude, so therefore she is hot even if her H doesn’t respond like she is.
I hope she gets what she wants from her H, nothing more, you know, like WTG LFL.
I do see your point, short honeymoon phase, but I hope it last till some thing get worked out, and that is for LFL and Mr. LFL. I would like to see them get/give more nookie to each other.
Well I didn't (I was quite drunk by midnight, lol) but H did! That was three times in less than 12 hours. He only had one or two drinks. Buzzed enough to perform quite well and actually step even further out of his comfort zone. Corri mentioned talking during sex. Boy did he. And that's not usually like him. "you are so f-ing wet......wrap your legs around my back and don't let go.....do you like how my c@ck feels when I f@ck you...." so not like him...but boy did that get me hot. Can't believe I was even able to cum again after so many drinks.
Well, I was going to go back and respond to all the older posts but most of them have to do with that brilliant decision to go see soldier guy. Strange how things seem to work out the way they are supposed to work out. Wow, where would I be now, if... Of course I could say the same thing, where would I be now with H if we didn't have that reality thrown in our faces. Something great came out of it...at least for now. Maybe I just need to tell H every few months I'm going to go sleep with a pretty boy soldier and then get ready for the hot sex with H to commence. j/k...sort of Would that be a strong bunny MJ? or monkey? I guess only if I knew I was not actually going to go through with it. Well, I guess I can control myself in the future if H is willing to give up the goods. I already told him I have to make an exception for Jake Gyllenhall. If by some act of God he asked me out, I'd just have to f@ck him hard as well as declare my love for him on the first date. H would get one pass too of course. Not even sure who he would pick though. Maybe Ashley Judd, he likes her. Anyways, I digress.
I was thinking of you last night HD. No, not during sex, lol. So...did you get any? Is the moratorium over? Maybe you just needed to get her drunk and talk dirty to her like my H did. ALthough knowing what I know of Mrs HD....not likely. Still keeping my fingers crossed for you.
What is to think about? 
