Take the advice... unplug the phone, put in a DVD and relax. Yes, I know it's impossible.
Got separated on 9/29 and heading for divorce.
My advice to you... (learn from some of my mistakes)
1. GIVE her an incredible amount of space. 2. No R talk 3. Let her initiate almost all contact 4. Ask for nothing. 5. The more you push the more they run