Living in MLC Misery Part 2

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KPK,

I'm no expert in mlc, just getting unwanted on the job training.

Go to the mlc archives and read "6 stages of mlc". Good news is the response to both WAS and MLC is the same; work on you and get a life. Either way you have no control over what they do or how this turns out. It does help to feel like you know what is happening, though.

All that said, your H made a few of the same comments my W and many others made:

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Extreme anger

No feelings left

Can't get them back

You should have seen problems/changed earlier

Not who they used to be (mine said we're now different people)

Leaving to find happiness (find out who she is in my sitch)

Passionate life (mine said wants to live with passion)

Only you can decide what you want to do, KPK. Ourselves is the only thing we have any control over. Good luck!