Living in MLC Misery Part 2

[KPK]

Thanks for the responses.

dry_heat:
you're probably right, I'm sure it means nothing to him right now.

inmyplace:
Turns out H doesn't know when he's going now (he says finances are the issue), just that he plans to, so I changed my signature line. My concern over good or not was just the way he seemed so cavalier about it- no jealousy at all. And yes, I'll just have to make it into what I want it to be.

Sleeper:
Half the time I think its MLC, the other half I'm not so sure. What distinguishes an MLCer from a WAS? The whole thing started off slowly, with distancing over the last year or 2 (said it was work stress), then the ILYBNILWY, then the extensive list of my faults and how I brought this all about, anger about issues he thought I should have adressed (mainly sexual) and how I made him feel about himself, how he has lost feelings for me/not attracted to me anymore and can't get them back, then he said he's not the person he use to be and wants to live a passionate life, and now he's at the calm "I'm leaving" stage so he can find "fundamental happiness" and has no problem with me dating. Aaaghhhh! it's all so confusing.

Suppose I should actually wait for him to leave to start the dating thing. And if files right away guess I'll put him in the WAS catagory.