The End or just the Beginning? Part 2

[mako]

Atlas,

I agree with what the others have said...I've gotten tons of advice in the past two months, a lot of things like "just set a date and move on, it's too much turmoil" "you'll never trust her again" "eff her, you don't want her in your life now." Few people understand what I am doing, although I think those I've thoroughly explained things to (including some basics of DB principles) get it, at least as far as understanding why I am doing what I'm doing.

They just don't want me to feel hurt, don't want me to be hurt again. If I give up and move on that's the quickest path to that; if I go along for the roller coaster ride who knows how long I'll be? Giving up is the easiest path for them, but it's not what I want right now.

Anyway, it's good to see the signs of your W at least trying something, even if it's just getting dressed up to see you, pursuing you. Now it's up to her to show you real changes consistently and for a long time period to see if she's really capable of being the one for you again. It is funny how you are almost the WAS now, the tables have turned.