Aud, Can you describe what some of the dialogue in your conversations consist of? If you can capture what you're saying, and what he's saying, maybe you can make some adjustments that will more likely move you two to problem-solving around the time spent together issue.
I'm thinking the formula consists of you conveying that you think his desire to spend time in the shop is important, and that you're willing to provide that, to clarify and articulate what your needs are regarding time spent together, and to propose an option, to get the discussion started.
At this point it's hard to tell how much your conflict management, listening, and communication skills need to improve, or that you're dealing with someone who's being selfish around this issue, and won't work with you on this issue no matter how you approach it.
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