The End or just the Beginning? Part 2

[dh4320]

like I'm requesting a semi to stop at 80 in the next 5 feet, and she is showing me the reality that it takes a lot of distance to stop.
this is a great analogy...

Now im going to give you some of your advice back. My family like many on this board have all told us to move on, hell they even say i have the perfect woman for you or i am screening the next one b4 you get serious(mom said that).

It sounds like you are getting to a point like i am although you have been doing this longer, where u start to feel or lookback at the negatives as well, you feel ya i need to change some things ok if that brings the spouse back what about the things she needs to change. While we are all dbing when and if the spouse comes back who says they will have changed to work on the negatives on their side. I am blabbering but my point is i think you really need to look at the R and see if its really something you want. you told me that once and i think about that post all the time.

hope it helps

DH