Quoting lostlove:
by all acounts in listening to what their gripes are all about I myself should have been the one to have an a..I am the one who should have left..so what is it then...these waw's are just little girls who don't know crap about real love and marriage...


Well, I am very proud of the fact that I would have stuck it out...I would NOT have settled with being unhappy but would have done, was doing, something about it! She lacked fortitude! I finally gave up later on! She is STILL confused/unhappy/lost, I am doing well for myself! Wil I rub it in? NO! But it not only gives me pride, but the knowledge that I can and will not only survive, but thrive!

Steph