All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[cat03]

I'm also upset about what he said about feeling uncomfortable in the family home, Will this prevent him in the long run from returning?
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no, this is how he feels NOW, that doesn't mean he wont change his mind later. He told you the only place that is comfortable is his car, meaning he is just miserable anywhere, like my H, he is uncomfortable in his own skin, hates what he's become.

H still texts a lot, he seems to open up more in texts, but when we see him, he doesn't seem the person who says what he says in texts?
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It's text book hon, they come close, get scared and retreat, my H was like that a lot when we were S.

He also said a lot of positive things about me, but nothing that indicates that his feelings have changed (early days yet, I guess?)
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It might take a few more months, it is too early, he is still trying to find himself and isn't ready for an R now.

I see good stuff, him seeing the truth and looking hard at the past. Keep doing what you are doing, you've come a long way)))))))) stay strong