as much as all the was who do come here and post get tired of hearing the lbs whine and complain...I am so sick of listening to the was complain about such trivial things..by all acounts in listening to what their gripes are all about I myself should have been the one to have an a..I am the one who should have left..so what is it then...these waw's are just little girls who don't know crap about real love and marriage...or am I just an ignorant woman who's dedicated to her family and h???
just pissing and moaning yet again.
I am glad that I wasn't a waw..I am glad that I know better..I am glad I didn't have an a..even though according to all the different justifications I hear (read) from the waw's I should have been...I'm glad that I've been committed to my m..even when I wasn't thrilled...I'm glad that I'm strong and realize what love and marriage and committment and family are all about..
I wish I didn't get so angry when I read storied from the waw...I wish I could find words to tell them I do understand how they feel...but that those feelings can be overcome...you may not have been happy but your spouse does want to learn how to make you happy NOW...and so what if it is NOW...would you be happier if they never wanted to?? or are you pissed now because now you know that you were wrong...you weren't justified in your actions of having an a...and leaving or asking them to leave...why wouldn't you want to give it another chance...does it suck that it took for you to walk for them to get it?? ya...but you should be happy that they get it.
this post is not intended for anyone specifically....I'm just tired of hearing waw's whine and complain...he said this...he said that...he did this...he didn't do that....arggg!!!! if your lbs were as selfish and petty as you are...they wouldn't want to try...they'd look at you having your a's and pushing them out of their homes away fromt their children and tell you to go screw yourself and thank you for no longer having to try to please you cause obviously it aint possible...you need some dillusion for that.
