Quote: LL, He said "I Love You"? Haven't you been waiting to hear that???
yup!! suppose maybe I'd be happier about it if it were not an after thought...he tells son every day that he loves him..maybe he just felt bad because after all he was talking to me about the interaction with son over the ily statement. but then I know he doesn't want to say it all the time because when he did (pre crap) it started to get stale...every phone conversation automatically ended with ily...though I'd like to hear it more...it is better this way.
Quote: Enjoy the moment...try (grrrrrr!) not to attach any expectations to it.
didn't and was better off not to have expected anything... !
Quote: That's what I'm trying to do about my upcoming getaway WITH my H...
good call, glad to hear you are going away..you need it...but again no expectations...h and I went away on a ski trip..one evening I scheduled massages for each of us...then filled the jacuzzi tub invited h in...then took a shower together then was dismayed at the fact that h got out and got dressed for dinner..went to dinner...had a few drinks..I opted to skip playing pool to get to the cuddling sooner..but again was dismayed when upon returning to the room..h put the tv on and started to snore!!! ugh!!! kinda blew the whole day away...but I suppose I should have just been happy that he was with me. took time off work..arrainged for someone else to take care of snow plowing...did get in the tub...did shave my legs...so I didn't get any that night...oh well!!
anyway!! hope you have a great time...I'm once again having easter at my house..I'm a little nervous about the day...don't know how I'll feel about it..as it was last easter when after cleaning everything up h said to me "I don't think I can do this anymore" and three days later moved out!! I doubt that's gonna happen this year but the memory is still fresh!
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