WAW staying, I'm leaving to give her space..(2)

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Things went very well this weekend. IMHO W really wants me back but there is still a trust/fear issue. I think W just wants to take it slow, I'm ok with that but things seem to be moving pretty quickly in a positive direction. Honestly, we are getting along together better than we have in quite some time (at least a year). There are alot of underlying issues that will eventually need to be resolved, though. The good things are that W really wants to spend her time with me, W thinks now she made a mistake with me moving out and wants to work on our R/M. Bad things are the trust/fear issues, W feeling guilty about 'kicking me out' (I told her how else would we have realized what we do now without me moving out). I sympathized, validated, listened to her every time the issues came up. I do notice that alot of the discussions are 'we' now and not 'I' or 'you'.

There isn't alot else to say at the moment. I am just trying to be patient and continue doing what I am doing because it seems to be working. I think if things continue the way they are going, I will have to move my thread to another forum that is more appropriate (piecing?). I really think we need MC but still not bringing it up right now, I'm waiting for W to initiate that, I'm just doing what I need to do for now & letting things happen.